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7 Habits Men Find Disgusting
Based on years of observation and honest conversations
Before you start reading this and decide I’m attacking all women on the planet, let me be clear: I’m not.
I’m sharing patterns I’ve observed over the years in couples who are friends, in relationships I’ve seen implode, and yes, in some of my own mistakes too.
These aren’t absolute truths carved in stone.
But when you hear the same themes repeatedly from different men, in different contexts, you start noticing patterns.
And those patterns deserve to be discussed, even if it’s uncomfortable.
This isn’t about denigrating women. It’s about bringing to light behaviors that, with the right inputs, tend to repeat themselves and erode relationships. Some will resonate with you.
Others won’t. And that’s okay.
1. Detective mode that nobody authorized
I’ve seen this happen so many times I’ve lost count. The woman who knows exactly when he was online. Who notices he commented on someone’s Instagram but “took too long” to respond to her message. Who can reconstruct his entire day based on story views and WhatsApp activity.
