Are You Ready for Polyamory?

The Pleasure of Loving Without Limits

Mary Carter
5 min readNov 4, 2024

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Polyamory has moved from whispered secrets to dinner table conversation.

In 2024, the statistics don’t lie: 34% of Americans already desire something beyond traditional monogamy, and 35% of Brits believe we’re not naturally monogamous.

But my perspective on this?

It comes from closely observing one of the most fascinating polyamorous relationships I’ve ever seen.

Photo by Hamid Tajik

I’ll tell you about a close friend who lives happily with two women under the same roof. It’s not just a permanent “ménage à trois” story — though yes, the sex is absolutely incredible, according to them. It’s a story of true love multiplied.

The sexual dynamic between them is breathtaking. Picture this: one night, the first partner is receiving oral while the second rides with abandon. Another night, they switch positions, creating an erotic dance that lasts for hours. The pleasure is multiplied, the possibilities are endless, and the arousal is constant.

But polyamory goes far beyond amazing sex.

What I see in their home is emotional and practical management that fascinates me. Their intimate life is organized like an exquisitely choreographed ballet. One day, she’s in the bedroom with him while…

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.

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