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But After All, What Is Sexual Gratification?
This is what I concluded after much reflection
The orgasm is no longer what it used to be.
Yes, it’s a shocking statement to begin with, but tell me honestly, when was the last time you thought about what you’re really seeking when you have sex, masturbate, or fantasize?
Probably never.
We have sex, flirt, and pursue pleasure like programmed automatons, without questioning what’s really happening with our constantly evolving sexuality. As a woman observing the transformations of intimacy, I clearly see that we are living through a silent revolution of pleasure that no one dares to name.
Sexual gratification. A clinical and impersonal term for something deeply intimate. But behind this cold expression hides a world of emotions, vulnerabilities, and connections that is being drastically reconfigured.
The satisfaction of our sexual desires has ceased to be merely a private act to become a force that shapes relationships, identity, and even our sense of worth. The context in which we experience pleasure is unrecognizable compared to just two decades ago.
Let’s face uncomfortable truths.
