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Casual Sex at 60? Hell Yes
The Best Sex of My Life Is Happening Now
“My body has never vibrated like this before.” That’s how my dear friend began her revelation during one of our weekly coffee dates. Sitting across from me, her eyes sparkled as she shared how, at 63, she’s experiencing the best sexual phase of her life.
“Nobody talks about how incredible pleasure can be at this age.”
Society created this myth that women over 60 should turn off their sexuality. That they should be content with knitting and grandchildren. But she proved exactly the opposite to me.
“You know what’s most liberating? Having no expectations. I found a 57-year-old man who makes me feel alive, desired, and I don’t have to pretend I want to marry him.” The way she talks about sex is revolutionary — no guilt, no shame, just pure pleasure.
Sunday afternoons have become sacred for her. No family lunches or social commitments. It’s her time, for her pleasure, for her freedom. “For the first time in my life, I’m having real orgasms, without pressure, without pretending.”
Between laughs, she tells me how her friends criticize her for not wanting a “serious relationship.” “Serious? What could be more serious than being honest about my desires?” Maturity brought her this certainty: pleasure needs no…
