Do You Really Want to Be Dominated?

Have You Ever Wondered Why the Idea of Her Taking Control Turns You On So Much?

Mary Carter
4 min readNov 6, 2024

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I’ve noticed something fascinating in recent years, men are increasingly intrigued (and aroused) by the idea of giving us total control in bed.

And you know what?

It’s time we talk about this without filters.

I’m not an expert or therapist — just a woman who’s been paying attention. And what I’ve seen is that the more “alpha” you are during the day, the more you seem to fantasize about completely surrendering at night. It’s almost poetic, isn’t it?

The way you react when a woman takes initiative.

That half-lost, half-excited look.

That change in breathing.

That moment of hesitation that screams “yes” even when you say nothing. I’ve seen it enough times to recognize the pattern.

Have you noticed how your partners change when they take on the submissive role? How suddenly that “alpha male” transforms into a vulnerable and receptive being?

It’s fascinating, isn’t it?

This trend didn’t come from nowhere. Conversations with my friends, online forums I read, frank discussions I’ve had with men — everything points to a truth many try to hide: you love the idea of giving us total power, even if just for a few hours.

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.

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