Emotional Dependency Doesn’t Exist
Your “I Can’t Live Without You” is Pure Childishness
Emotional dependency doesn’t exist — it’s fear of growing up. We call it love when it’s pure terror of facing adult life.
Modern psychology proves: we only need others to survive during childhood. After that, any “need” for another person is a conscious choice to remain infantile.
Brilliant, capable, and talented people waste years in toxic relationships using this emotional dependency excuse. The entertainment industry profits from selling the idea that true love is all-consuming.
Lie. Mature love is being with someone by choice, not necessity.
Stanford University data:
- 67% higher probability of depression in “emotional dependents”
- 89% more likely to stay in abusive relationships
- 7 years on average wasted in dead-end relationships
This supposed emotional dependency is a habit, not a disease. You stay in a toxic relationship because:
- You fear facing adult life
- You never learned to be alone
- You prefer familiar misery to the challenge of growth