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Focus is for the Weak

Your Laziness Kills More Dreams Than Lack of Money

Mary Carter
6 min readJan 20, 2025

There’s no secret to success there’s brutal work, sick focus, and an obsession that modern society labels as “toxic”. What’s really toxic? The mediocrity we’ve normalized. People who settle for crumbs when they could have the whole feast.

Who convince themselves that “balance” is synonymous with calculated mediocrity.

It’s 3 AM. My coffee’s been cold for hours and my eyes are burning. But I’m still here — not because I’m special, but because I learned that 99% of people aren’t willing to pay the real price of success.

That price?

Sacrificing immediate comfort.

Saying no to friends who pull you down.

Accepting that you’ll be misunderstood, judged, labeled as “different”.

Photo by Juliet Montesinos

Your Instagram is full of “balanced life” and “self-care,” but nobody achieves anything extraordinary with 8 hours of sleep and Netflix weekends. In China, the standard is 996 — working from 9 AM to 9 PM, 6 days a week. And here we are, whining about working 40 hours weekly.

The difference? They understand that extraordinary success demands extraordinary effort. There’s no middle ground.

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