He’d Rather Jerk Off Than Have Sex With Me

Mary Carter
4 min readAug 8, 2024

This obsession is completely destroying this couple

He came to me with a story so bizarre and concerning that, at first, I thought he was messing with me because anyone who heard this would have exactly the same reaction. I only started taking what she was saying seriously when I saw her face… damn, I’d never seen her so devastated, so down…

“He spends hours in the bathroom jerking off,” she told me, her eyes red from crying. “And it’s not just occasionally. It’s every damn day, multiple times! What did I do wrong?! Tell me!”

I was speechless, not knowing what to say at that moment because I couldn’t understand why. As some of you know, I like to talk about sexuality and share some of my experiences and situations of people in my life circle, but this situation is just bizarre on all levels..

In my head at that moment, the questions popped up, “How come?” “A guy with a hot girlfriend like her prefers jerking off to real sex?” It didn’t make sense. “Did he lose interest in her?” “Is he cheating on her?” But if he’s cheating, why is he jerking off so much?!

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Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.