How Soon Should I Reveal That I Have a Micropenis When Talking to a Woman?

The male dilemma nobody wants to discuss, but everyone needs to know

Mary Carter
4 min readSep 23, 2024

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He sat across from me, eyes fixed on the floor, hands nervously intertwined. Silence hung in the air, heavy as lead.

Finally, he looked up and blurted out “I have a micropenis. I don’t know how to deal with this when dating.”

The confession hit like a bomb.

Not because of the nature of the problem, but because of the evident pain in his voice.

This man, attractive and successful in many aspects of life, carried a burden few understood.

“Women always end up leaving me when they find out,” he continued, frustration palpable in every word.

“I don’t blame them, but… it’s exhausting, you know?

I want to find someone who accepts me completely.”

As I listened, my mind raced.

As a woman, I had never truly considered this dilemma.

How many men silently carried this weight?

What was it like to live with the constant fear of rejection, not for who you are, but for something you have no control over?

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Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.