I Caught My Husband for the Third Time

The Betrayal That Repeats When Should I Stop Forgiving

Mary Carter
4 min readSep 10, 2024

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Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. When that foundation is shaken, the entire structure of marriage threatens to collapse.

This is exactly what a woman felt when, for the third time in six years, she caught her husband exchanging messages with another woman.

“The initial shock gave way to a toxic mix of anger, pain, and despair,” she confessed. “How could he do this to me again? Did our vows, our promises, mean nothing to him?”

The first time it happened, she forgave him. She believed it was a mistake, a moment of weakness. The second time was even more dramatic. “A friend of mine told me she had seen him with another woman,” she revealed.

“When I confronted him, he became desperate. In a moment of madness, he grabbed a gun and pointed it at his own head, begging for my forgiveness.”

This shocking scene left her terrified and confused. “I was so afraid he might do something crazy… I

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.

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