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I Miss Having Orgasms
I envy you for having them
I received a confession in my private group that made me stop and think. A real story about how our choices and circumstances can completely change our intimate life. The account came without warning, loaded with emotion and raw truth. One of those stories that need to be shared, not just heard, but truly felt by all of us.
“For practically 9 years, I became dependent on sex toys. I didn’t realize how much this would change my body.” The confession came unfiltered, loaded with regret. Before, she had orgasms easily with partners. Sex flowed naturally, pleasure came effortlessly. It was a genuine connection, pure, instinctive. Something many of us take for granted until the moment we lose it.
The change was gradual, almost imperceptible at first. Sex toys, which started as an exciting experience, became a daily necessity. Her body got used to intense, mechanical, artificial stimulation. Natural orgasms began slipping through her fingers like water. The dependency settled in silently, day after day, without her noticing the trap she was creating for herself.
“When I realized what was happening, I decided to change.” The new serious relationship gave her even more motivation for this change. She started reducing the use of toys, determined to recover her natural sensitivity. Progress was…