I Said NO in Bed

Mary Carter
3 min readJul 15, 2024

Confessions of a Woman Who Didn’t Give In …

Girls, buckle up for a story that goes from hot to not in record time.

At 30, I’m no saint. But what happened a few nights ago left me shocked and questioning everything I thought I knew about men and sex.

I met John at a bar. Tall, dark, with eyes that could melt panties. After weeks of flirty texts, we finally hooked up. The setting was perfect: drinks, sexy music, and his apartment all to ourselves.

Things heated up fast. Hands everywhere, breathtaking kisses, skin on fire with desire. In the blink of an eye, we were naked and ready for action.

There I was, all wet, thinking I was about to have the night of my life, when the bastard tries to stick it in just like that. No condom, the animal!

It was like a bucket of ice water. I pushed him hard, almost throwing him off the bed. His face? A mix of surprise and frustration that almost made me laugh.

“I forgot,” he says. Bullshit!

I saw his wallet right there. Bet he had a condom inside.

The mood turned arctic. His enthusiasm? Gone in a flash. He started stammering lame excuses about not being used to it, that he didn’t use one with his ex… So much crap it made me want to slap him.

--

--

Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.