Is Your Husband a Sex Pest?

Mary Carter
3 min readAug 2, 2024

The Private Hell of an Exhausted Wife

I gotta tell you a story that left me floored. A friend of mine called me last night, totally desperate, and spilled everything. Brace yourselves, ’cause this is intense.

“All day, every day, my husband pesters me for sex. He talks about sex, gropes me, grabs me, tries to get me in the sack. It’s unpleasant, irritating, and adds a ton of pressure on top of everything else I’m managing.

Fuck, right? And she kept going.

“From the moment I wake up, I’m taking care of the kids, the house, the meals, wiping asses, walking the dogs, running errands, playing with the kids, teaching them, facilitating their development. The tasks never stop.”

While she’s splitting herself in a thousand pieces, her husband seems to have only one thing on his mind.

“I haven’t even showered, I’m running from task to task, and this guy is following me around, watching everything I do and bugging me for a ‘quickie’. And it’s always a quickie… even when the kids are in bed, it’s

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Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.