Man, When She’s Wrong, Don’t Accept Sex as an Apology

That’s the Dumbest Thing Ever.

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If your wife disrespects you, hurts you, crosses a line, and instead of apologizing simply approaches you and initiates intimacy, and you accept it?

You’re not a man.

You’re a trained dog.

And before you start rolling your eyes or preparing your pathetic defense about “keeping the peace” or “moving forward,” let me be clear: you’re not moving forward.

You’re swallowing your dignity and calling it love.

And she knows exactly what she’s doing.

How many times has it happened?

She says something cruel.

Disrespects you in front of friends.

Completely ignores your feelings. And instead of acknowledging the mistake, instead of saying “sorry, I was wrong,” she simply… touches you.

Seduces you. And you give up. Again.

You call it making peace. I call it prostituting your authority for access to something you already have the right to. You’re literally trading your self-respect for sex. With your own wife.

Think about this for a second.