Men Fantasize More About Threesomes

While Women Dream of BDSM

Mary Carter
8 min readOct 16, 2024

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As a woman interested in human sexuality, I’ve been fascinated by the changing attitudes towards sexual fantasies over the years.

The recent Kinsey Institute research has brought to light interesting data on the differences between genders and generations when it comes to desires and fetishes.

The appetite for certain sexual fantasies varies according to age and gender, but one thing is certain: fetishes are on the rise.

This is what a study published in September by the renowned Kinsey Institute, a center specializing in sexuality at Indiana University, USA, in partnership with the dating app Feeld, points out.

After interviewing 3,310 people between 18 and 77 years old from 71 countries for this study alone, specialist Justin Lehmiller identified not only how the sexual profile of one generation differs from another, but also fantasies that are always more popular.

“One of the things I discovered is that there are at least three key ideas that almost everyone fantasizes about at one point or another [in life],” he told the British newspaper Metro.

It seems that men are all dreaming about threesomes, while women are more into whips and handcuffs.

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Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.