Quick Sex Without Pleasure? Hell No!

Orgasms are for everyone, even against the clock

Mary Carter
4 min readNov 19, 2024

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You reading this right now, probably thinking about your failed quickies or those 5-minute morning sessions that never quite happen.

Photo by Fernando Gimenez

Everyone talks about quickies like they’re the holy grail of fast sex, but most times it’s shit. And no, I’m not here to tell you all women are unsatisfied — some love it and get there in record time.

Me? Not so much. And that’s okay.

It was morning, we were late for work, and the horniness was through the roof. “It’ll be quick,” he said. Quick it was — too quick for me to even process what happened. Ended up more frustrated than a cat in heat.

This isn’t a sad story.

Here’s how I transformed my quickies from “fuck, is it over already?” to “fuck me one more time before you go.” And I didn’t need any tantra course or impossible Kama Sutra positions.

My body isn’t a vending machine where you insert coins and pleasure comes out. I needed to know myself — and well. Spent entire nights exploring myself, figuring out where the fuck that instant pleasure button was. Found it. Multiple times. In multiple places.

Not every fuck has to be penetration.

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.

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