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Signs She Doesn’t Respect You
And Why That’s Your Problem
If she only reaches out when she needs something, you’re not a priority — you’re a utility. You’re that convenient friend she keeps in her back pocket, like a tissue for emergencies. You know the pattern well: she ignores your messages for days but magically resurfaces when she needs a ride, money to borrow, or a shoulder to cry on about the idiot she’s dating.
Think it’s coincidence? You allow this because deep down, you hope she’ll finally realize how special you are. Let me save you time: she already knows — and she’s using it against you.
That “I’m busy” excuse you swallow like a pill? It’s as real as Instagram captions. Nobody is busy 24/7, and you know it. She has time to post 15 stories a day, respond to strangers’ comments, and hang out with other people, but somehow never manages to respond to your messages?
The truth is simple: if she wanted to, she would make time. If she were really interested, she would make an effort to stay in touch.
If she respected you even minimally, she wouldn’t leave you on read for days. It’s time to stop making excuses to justify the obvious: you’re not a priority.
When was the last time she showed genuine interest in your life?
