Stop Pretending and F*ck How You Want

The only rule of seduction is there are no rules

Fuck, have you seen the amount of bullsht on the internet about how to seduce a man? If I see one more article about “wear red lingerie” or “send mysterious messages,” I swear I’m gonna puke.

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I fell for all that crap too.

Tried being the mysterious woman, the femme fatale, the hard-to-get one… And you know what I discovered? It’s all BS that only serves to make us feel more insecure and waste money on sh*t we don’t need.

The truth? Men are way simpler than this whole “seduction” industry wants you to believe.

And no, I’m not saying they’re basic — I’m saying that all this complexity we’ve created around attraction is a huge waste of time and energy.

What actually works? Here it is, no sugarcoating:

1. Show that you’re turned on. Yeah, that’s it. No games or pretending you don’t want it. If you’re horny, show it. Men love feeling desired — it’s that simple.
2. Take initiative, damn it! It’s 2024, and some still think they have to wait for him to make the first move? Grab what you want. Literally.
3. Cut the passive-aggressive crap. If you want something, say it. If you don’t like something, say that too…