Swing: The Night That Will Change Your Marriage Forever

Mary Carter
4 min readJul 10, 2024

10 secrets every couple needs to know before entering this fascinating and controversial world.

Picture yourself at the door of an exclusive club, heart pounding, your partner’s hand in yours. The red neon flickers softly, casting mysterious shadows. You’re about to enter a new and exciting world: a swing club. But are you really prepared for what awaits you behind that discreet door?

A few weeks ago, during a romantic dinner paired with red wine, the conversation took an unexpected turn. Between nervous laughter and knowing glances, the idea emerged. A mix of curiosity and adrenaline led you to set this special night. But as the day approached, doubts began to surface, multiplying like rabbits in a burrow.

Meet John and Mary (names changed), a couple in their 30s, married for 5 years, determined to explore new frontiers in their relationship. He’s a 35-year-old engineer, a bit hesitant, always the more cautious of the two. She’s a 32-year-old graphic designer, eager for adventure, always the one pushing their relationship towards new experiences. Both are a mix of excitement and nervousness, like teenagers before their first date.

As they approach the entrance, a thousand questions race through their minds, like a buzzing swarm of bees. What should they wear? How should…

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Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.