The Casual Sex Secret That 90% of Women Don’t Know (But Should)

Mary Carter
3 min readJul 13, 2024

how to turn fleeting encounters into powerful experiences and I’m about to spill it all, including the trick that tripled my pleasure.

Ever woken up after a night of fun thinking, “Damn, this should’ve been so much better”? Yeah, I’ve been there too. For years, I fumbled through the world of casual sex, trying to figure out why something supposedly so cool often left me with a bitter taste in my mouth (and no, I’m not talking about last night’s gin and tonic).

But everything changed when I decided to roll up my sleeves and crack this mystery. After a decade of research, interviewing hundreds of women, and yes, doing my own “field work” (someone had to do it, right?), I discovered something shocking: casual sex can be absolutely amazing for us women. And no, I’m not kidding you.

Secret #1: The Authenticity Trick That Made My Satisfaction Rate Skyrocket

Forget that BS about pretending to be someone you’re not just to please some random guy.

The key to mind-blowing casual sex?

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Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.