The Prostitute Amsterdam Killed Twice

Betty Died 15 Years Ago, But Amsterdam Still Makes Her Work

Mary Carter
4 min readNov 9, 2024

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When I first read about Betty Szabo’s hologram, I felt an unsettling shiver. Not from the morbid aspect of the initiative — after all, what other word could describe the digital recreation of a murdered woman? — but from how this story exposes our own contradictions as a society.

We can digitally recreate a dead sex worker, but we couldn’t protect her when she was alive. This is the first irony that jumps out at me, and it’s brutal in its simplicity.

Betty Szabo’s hologram

Picture this: Betty will reappear at the same location where she was brutally murdered, but this time as a three-dimensional projection, a technological ghost asking passersby for help.

The same society that marginalized her profession, that pushed her to the edges of “respectability,” now wants to use her post-mortem image to serve justice. There’s something deeply disturbing about this posthumous instrumentalization of her existence.

Don’t get me wrong. I support any initiative that might bring justice and closure to Betty’s family.

But I can’t help but question: where was all this concern when she was still breathing?

When, at 19, she worked until the final days of her pregnancy?

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.