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This Makes Any Man Fall In Love With You Infallible

Women, Pay Attention

7 min readOct 11, 2025

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He takes three hours to text you back. But when she texts him, he responds in five minutes.

You do everything right.

You’re always available.

You’re understanding. You support him.

And him?

He treats you like an option.

Meanwhile, that girl who treats him like shit, barely responds, leaves him on read? He chases her like a dog after a bone.

And you’re sitting there thinking: “What does she have that I don’t?”

Nothing. And everything.

She understood something you haven’t figured out yet: men don’t want what they already have. They want what they haven’t gotten yet.

Your mom taught you to be a good girl. To be kind. To give your all. To make sacrifices. To be understanding. “Treat him well and he’ll appreciate you,” they said.

They lied.

A man doesn’t appreciate a woman for being good to him. He appreciates a woman when he’s afraid of losing her. And if you’re always there, always available, always forgiving, always accepting crumbs? He’s not afraid. He’s certain.

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

Love and sex without bullshit, raw texts + practical tools for adults tired of sweet promises. https://substack.com/@aboutsex?utm_source=user-menu

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