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Why Couples Are Paying $10,000 to Learn How to Fuck Again

Find out why.

6 min readOct 7, 2025

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Couples are dropping between $3,000 and $15,000 to learn how to fuck. Again. With their own partners.

And no, it’s not because they’re rich idiots playing with money.
They’ve reached the point where they’d rather pay thousands of dollars to strangers than admit to each other that sex between them died years ago. That they’ve become roommates who occasionally touch out of obligation.

That she’s been faking it so long she barely remembers what it feels like to actually come. That he fantasizes about other women because her body doesn’t do anything for him anymore.

These tantra retreats promise reconnection.

But what they really sell is permission to finally be honest. Permission to say out loud that the sex is crap without sounding like the villains of the marriage.

When you pay $10,000 and fly to a resort in Bali or Mexico, you’re not buying secret techniques. You’re buying a space where you can finally say “I don’t feel anything when you touch me” without it immediately destroying the marriage. There’s a trained facilitator there.

Other people are admitting the same shit.

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

Love and sex without bullshit, raw texts + practical tools for adults tired of sweet promises. https://substack.com/@aboutsex?utm_source=user-menu

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