Why Did We Stop Talking About Sexual Harassment?

I’m Tired of Pretending Everything is Fine

Mary Carter
5 min readNov 1, 2024

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I feel a moral obligation to confront an inconvenient truth that our society has been trying to sweep under the rug: the #MeToo movement has failed.

Not because its intentions weren’t noble or because its allegations weren’t true, but because we’ve allowed the comfort of silence to overshadow the need for real change.

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In 2024, it’s infuriating that we still need to have this conversation.

When statistics show that nearly two-thirds of women have been sexually harassed at work, we’re not talking about isolated cases — we’re talking about a behavioral pandemic that society has chosen to normalize.

What disturbs me most isn’t just the persistence of harassment — it’s our collective resignation to it.

We’ve turned #MeToo into a passing cultural moment, as if it were just another social media trend rather than a cry for help from millions of women.

How is it possible that in 2024, after all the supposed “progress,” we still have to hear stories like Zoe’s, who was effectively punished for reporting her harasser?

The uncomfortable truth is that we’ve created a perverse system where victims are doubly victimized: first by

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.

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