Why Do Women Intimidate Other Women at Work?

Why Are We Fighting Each Other Anyway?

Mary Carter
4 min readNov 14, 2024

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Three hundred candidates for one leadership position. Only one woman will be chosen. The other 299 will return to their desks, swallowing the frustration of another defeat in a rigged game.

Welcome to the female corporate world, where we’ve learned to tear each other down while the patriarchy watches comfortably.

The numbers are brutal: only 8.8% of Fortune 500 CEOs are women. And guess what? Instead of joining forces against this absurdity, we turn our claws on each other. The Workplace Bullying Institute revealed that 80% of women are bullied by other women at work.

They call it Queen Bee Syndrome — that leader who deliberately sabotages other women. But let’s be honest: it’s not a syndrome. It’s pure, raw fear. Fear of losing the hard-won position, fear of being replaced, fear of becoming irrelevant.

Toxic behavior takes predictable forms: manipulation (72%), daily humiliation (67%), obsessive micromanagement (62%). These seem like cold

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Mary Carter
Mary Carter

Written by Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.