You Who Condemn What You Don’t Understand

Let’s talk about love that doesn’t care about gender or labels

Mary Carter
3 min readOct 25, 2024

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Before anything else, I want to make it clear that I’m no expert on this subject — I’m just someone who decided to dive into this fascinating topic and want to share my discoveries with you. So, let’s have an honest chat about pansexuality?

You know when you’re hanging with friends and someone drops “I’m pan” and everyone’s like “pan what?” Yeah, there are still lots of people who get that puzzled look when they hear about pansexuality.

And no, it has nothing to do with being attracted to pans (sorry, couldn’t resist the joke!).

But Really, What’s This Pansexuality Thing About?

For a long time, we were stuck in this “it’s either this or that” story. But then this guy named Alfred Kinsey came along in the 1950s and showed that human sexuality is way more complex than simply dividing everyone into two boxes.

You’re at a party and meet someone amazing. The conversation flows, the connection happens, and you haven’t even stopped to think if this person is a man, woman, trans, non-binary…

You just know you’re completely caught up in their personality. If you relate to this, you might have some pan cheese on your pizza of…

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Mary Carter

I share candid reflections on love, sex, and life's ups and downs, no holds barred and no taboos.